What is the one thing that has always been constant in every problem, every failure, every fight with a loved one, every argument, every challenge, every lost job, every lost relationship, every lost opportunity that you have ever encountered in your entire life?
What is this one thing that has been ubiquitous throughout all those times? Can you guess? Right. It’s YOU!
You bring yourself to every new endeavor, every new relationship, every new opportunity. Therefore, how can anything ever change when wherever you go, there you are?! Simple. For things to change, YOU must change. For things to get better, YOU must become better. That’s the only way.
It Will Not Change
The only thing you can ever control in this life is you. Everything else is, and always will be, out of your control. Everything else, regardless of your opinion or how you personally feel about it, will continue to go on exactly as it always has. The sun will continue to set in the west whether it has your approval or not. The day will follow night every time, all the time, no matter what your personal feelings on the subject. Winter will be cold. Summer will be hot. Your opinion is neither asked for nor required. You cannot change it.
So, do you want things to change in your life? Are you waiting around for opportunity to knock on your door? For it to all work out the way you want just because you think it should? Waiting for things to change? For circumstances to be more favorable? For the timing to be right? There is one guarantee I can make you right now if you are waiting for any of these things, I guarantee you will get old waiting!!
The one and only way to effect the change you want in your life is to create it yourself. For anything at all to change for you, you must change.
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