11 Self Defense Tips for Women

1) Know Your Outcome

You must have it in your mind that no matter what, you will fight and you will survive.  You will get home safe.  This is your ultimate goal.  Additionally, you must also know in advance what you are willing to do, how far you are willing to go, in order to protect yourself.

2) Action First

Do not allow yourself to get pulled into “paralysis by analysis”.  It doesn’t matter (right now) why this is happening to you, only that it IS happening and you must take action NOW.  You can analyze and Monday Morning Quarterback yourself when you are home safe.

3) Do the Math!

If you are attacked by only one opponent, but you doubt yourself, you are outnumbered!

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4) Breathe and Move

Intense stress wreaks havoc on the body.  Heart rate and blood pressure elevate.  Vision narrows.  Blood roars in your ears.  Your breathing gets faster and higher in your chest, or you may even hold your breath as your heart pounds.  You freeze.  The way to break this cycle of destruction is to sharply exhale and MOVE!

5) Keep Your S.A.

S.A. stands for situational awareness.  Do not walk in public with you head down buried in your cell phone.  Do not run with headphones on oblivious to your surroundings.  Do not walk to your car alone at night without knowing where your keys are!

6) Stand Tall

This is a corollary to the one above.  Stand up straight and walk with confidence.  Keep your eyes scanning around you and look like you are aware.  This signals to a potential attacker that maybe you are not a good target and they will move on to someone else less likely to notice them.

7) C.W.C.T

This stands for Closest Weapon Closest Target.  Do not fixate and focus on a particular target.  Do not over analyze where you should strike your attacker.  Just strike fast, hard, and often.  Hit the closest thing on him with the nearest weapon you have whether that is your fist, foot, knee, elbow, purse, keys, etc.  Also, ladies, please note that the groin is not always the best target.  Yes, it hurts, but guys are trained from birth to protect that area.  Make sure you have more in your bag of tricks than just a groin shot.

8) Get Away!

Remember your outcome in #1.  Your job is not to subdue your attacker and hold him for a citizen’s arrest.  Your job is also not to beat him to a pulp.  Your one and only job (assuming you are by yourself) is to get away as soon as possible, as fast as possible and to a safe location.

9) Be the Momma Bear

Remember that you are powerful.  When you see a bear in the woods, are you scared?  Yes, of course.  When you see a Momma Bear with 2 cubs in the woods, are you more scared or less scared?  MORE!

10) Who Do You Love?

Building on the Momma Bear concept above – even if you are alone, you still must fight and survive for your your kids, your family, your loved ones.  If you don’t fight, who will protect and nurture them when you are gone?  Get it into your head to fight.  Always.

11) Beware of Normalcy Bias

I owe this one to my good friend, Josh Sager of the New Jersey Personal Defense Academy.  From Josh’s article on Normalcy Bias:

“In layman’s terms, normalcy bias is the condition where a person’s fear manifests itself so acutely that they cannot process a traumatic event and, essentially, blocks it out of their mind. ”  I highly suggest you read the entire article HERE.

As the father of 2 young girls, women’s self defense is a subject very near and dear to my heart.  Over the past 15 years I have taught women’s self defense workshops to schools, clubs, companies, MOMs groups, church groups, and women from all walks of life who simply want to know more, be more confident, and learn the mindset, psychology, and skills that will help them survive in the event they are attacked.

To book a Women’s Self Defense Workshop for your organization, please contact me HERE.

 

Jon Haas, “The Warrior Coach” has been training in Bujinkan Budo Taijutsu for more than 25 years and is currently ranked as a Kudan (9th degree black belt) under Jack Hoban Shidoshi. He has also trained in Okinawan Karate, Tae Kwon Do, Russian Systema, BJJ, Krav Maga, as well as Internal Martial Arts of Yiquan and Aiki.He is also a certified Underground Strength Coach-Level 2, an ACE and FMS certified Personal Trainer and the founder of Warrior Fitness Training Systems. In 2008, Jon wrote the book, Warrior Fitness: Conditioning for Martial Arts, and since then has created numerous other online training and coaching programs helping people around the world become the strongest, most capable versions of themselves!

 

 

The Year in Review

As we begin to turn the calendar page and close the door on 2012, I wanted to look back and share with you some highlights of the year for Warrior Fitness. Although it was a very busy and prouctive year all around, a few major accomplishments really stand out in my mind.

Here are a few of them in pictures….

Warrior Fitness Gym opened in January

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Several Bujinkan Martial Arts seminars were co-taught with my best Buyu, Josh Sager (more coming in 2013!)

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I was named Head Strength and Conditioning Coach for VX Global and even got my own channel on VX TV!

VX Coach

First Ever VX USA Certification Seminar held at Warrior Fitness Gym (more coming in 2013!)

 

VX Cert

 

I was certified as a VX Coach Level 1

 

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Released the Dad Strength Program for Father’s Day, 2012

Dad Strength Cover

Ran the Tough Mudder in October with my brother, Dave and best friend, Jason (who’s up for another in 2013?  Team Warrior Fitness!)

 

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Held the first ever Flippin Awesome Tire Battle at Warrior Fitness Gym!

Released the Evolve Your Breathing Program in December

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1st Seminar at Warrior Fitness Gym with my good friend, Craig Gray (more coming in 2013 – see HERE!)

Jon and Craig

Oh Yeah, and I turned 40 in December… Shhh… don’t tell anyone!

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Wishing a Happy, Prosperous, and Strong New Year to all my family, friends, clients, and followers locally and around the world – thank you for all your support, it’s an honor to serve you!

Keep a sharp lookout on 2013 – more awesome and amazing things are coming your way from Warrior Fitness!

Next year – The Year of the Warrior!

Bye bye 2012…

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Awaken The Man

Comfortably slumbering under the influence of the drug that is modern society, the true power of man lies dormant.

Too much of the wrong foods have made him sluggish and their excesses have made him round.

Too much sitting, whether it be in an office laboring behind a keyboard, or on a couch relaxing from that labor in front of a television, has made him weak and brittle.

Too much time indoors has taken the natural healthy glow and replaced it with a pasty, snow white tan gained under the glare of a fluorescent sun.

Too many worries and stresses about how to have more, or keep it, have robbed him of his real sleep and etched artificial lines across his forehead and bags under his eyes.  (Are we still worried about the zombie apocalypse?  Hell, it may already be happening and we don’t even know it!) Continue reading

Knife and Pistol Seminar

 Saturday, June 23, 2012

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Bujinkan Shidoshi, Josh Sager – 10th dan, and Jon Haas – 9th dan, team up once again to bring you a unique and extraordinary presentation of weapons retention and deployment using the knife and pistol! Continue reading

Ninja Weapons Seminar

 Ninja Weapons Seminar

Saturday, March 24, 2012

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Bujinkan Shidoshi, Josh Sager – 10th dan, and Jon Haas – 9th dan, team up to bring you a unique and extraordinary presentation of small and hidden weapons used by Japan’s legendary Ninja Warriors!

You will learn strategies, tactical movement, and techniques utilizing:

  •  Ninja Sword
  •  Shuriken
  •  Kunai
  •  Edda Koppo
  •  Shuko
  •  Nawajutsu
  •  Kyoketsu Shoge
  •  And More…

 

When?

Saturday March 24, 2012

What Time?

1 PM to 5 PM

Where?

Warrior Fitness Gym
Hainesport Business Complex
4004 Sylon Blvd.
Hainesport, NJ 08036

How Much?

$50 payable online (click paypal link below) or at the door.

For more information or to register, please email jon@warriorfitness.org or call (609) 556-8712

Yoga for Guitar Players

This is an article I wrote last year for my friend, Josh Sager’s kick-ass guitar blog, Fretterverse.  I hope my Warrior Fitness readers enjoy it as well!

 Every guitar player knows that consistent practice is the key to becoming great.  But what happens when your daily practice is causing you daily aches and pains?  Give up?  No way.  Scale back your practice?  Not a chance.  Live with it?  Some do.  You shouldn’t have to.

Every activity that we repeat consistently causes an adaptation in the body.  The critical thing to note here is that it does not matter at all how we value this adaptation.  It can be something that we want like how healthy exercise increases lean muscle mass and burns excess fat, or it can be something we do not want like how eating junk food to an extreme causes our body to adapt by putting on weight.  Both of these are examples of activities that cause adaptations in the body.  Sitting and playing guitar for extended periods of time also causes specific adaptations in the body.  Some we value highly, like the enhanced neural connections in our nervous system that adapt to increase our skill level.  Others, like hunching over a classical guitar for example, may cause our body to adopt this rounded back, slumped shoulders posture while standing and performing activities other than practicing guitar.  In order to bring our bodies back to balance, while retaining the adaptations we value, ie the skill in playing that our practice is supposed to generate, we must compensate specifically for the typical posture used while shredding.

Yoga is designed to bring your body back to balance.   Don’t worry, I’m not about to ask you to jump into a Power Yoga class.  Not unless you want to, anyway.  What I am going to have you do is take about 10 minutes after your practice and use just a few simple yoga postures (illustrated below) to help bring your body back to balance and prevent, or relieve, the back and neck pain that tend to be associated with long term sitting, whether due to working on a computer, sitting in an office, or sitting while practicing guitar.  An added benefit is that we will also open up your chest and lungs to improve your breathing pattern and help reduce stress.

Note in the picture above how his back is rounded and his head looking down.  Over time, this will contribute to low back pain, neck pain, and hunched, rounded shoulders.  His posture is not optimal for breathing either.  The effect of rounding the back concaves the chest and compresses the lungs making it difficult to achieve a full, deep breath.

Postures

1.  Shoulder bridge

  • Lay on your back and bend your knees
  • Pull your heels in as close to your butt as possible
  • Exhale and lift your hips up, driving with the middle part of your feet
  • Squeeze your glutes and lift a little higher
  • Exhale and pull your belly to your spine
  • Hold for 20 to 30 seconds
  • Relax for a few breaths and then do it again
  • Bring your knees into your chest and squeeze them tight to release any excess tension
  • Straighten out your legs and then move onto the next posture

2.  Upward Facing Dog

  • From the end position of the last posture, laying on your back, roll over onto your stomach
  • Lift from the crown of your head and drive with the palm heels
  • Make sure your elbow pits are facing forward
  • Drop your shoulder down, so they are not up by your ears
  • Lift your hips and legs off the ground
  • Inhale, expanding the chest, lifting it up at a 45 degree angle
  • Hold for 20 to 30 seconds
  • Lay down flat on your stomach and rest for a few breaths
  • Repeat and then finish by moving into Sleeping Warrior

3.  Sleeping Warrior

  • From a kneeling position, exhale and pull your belly to your spine.
  • Fold your torso forward over your knees and place your forehead on the ground.
  • Extend your arms straight out in front of you.
  • As you extend and reach with the hands, draw the shoulder blades down so they are not coming out of joint.
  • Continue to extend and pull back to stretch and release the tension stored in your shoulders.
  • As you inhale, you will find it difficult to expand the abdomen and the chest due to the compression.  Try to find the free spaces on the sides and back where you can inhale into and expand slightly.
  • As you exhale, again pull belly to spine and contract your core moving deeper into the posture.

What About My Hands?

Although the following are not particularly yoga exercises, they can be of benefit to guitar player’s hands.  The repetitive motion of strumming and chord changing can cause problems similar to the repetitive keyboard typing of the desk jockey and thus special attention needs to be paid to the hands, wrists, and fingers.

Releasing the Wrists

  • Hold both hands in loose fists, make circles clockwise for 5 to 10 reps and counter-clockwise for 5 to 10 reps
  • Next, starting with left wrist, hold in fist as above, lift wrist up, to the outside, down, to the inside, reverse direction and repeat with right wrist for 5 to 10 reps each direction

Releasing the Fingers

  • Begin circling fingers with thumbs (5 times each) then continue with each additional finger
  • Circle fingers from pinkies back to the thumbs in the opposite direction

Shaking the Hands

  • Shake the hands vigorously keeping them very loose for about 10 to 20 seconds.  This has the effect of releasing residual tonus and relaxing the muscles.

The above exercises, if performed consistently, will act as compensation for long periods of sitting and help you to abate any type of chronic muscle tension and pain that comes as a result of your practice.  There are, of course, many other yoga postures that can be utilized with the same type of success to help compensate for any type of activity, including inactivity!  Hopefully this brief introduction on yoga for guitar players will enable you to practice longer and pain free – shred on!

About the Author:  Jon Haas is a NJ based fitness trainer, writer, and martial artist.  He can be reached at www.warriorfitness.org