Push-Ups for Stephanie Project

Several weeks ago we received devastating news.  11 year old Stephanie Bader, the daughter of our close family friends, Ed and Mary Bader, was in the ICU at Children’s Hospital of Pennsylvania (CHOP).  We found out very shortly thereafter that the reason for her hospitalization was a brain tumor.

Surgery was performed.

70% of the tumor was removed and sections were biopsied.  The tumor turned out to be malignant and this shy, beautiful little girl was suddenly diagnosed with Cancer.  The Bader family’s world was turned upside down.  Neighbors, friends, and relatives all pitched in.   The overwhelming outpouring of prayers, gifts, meals, help, sympathy, and support is heartwarming to see.

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In order to help alleviate some of the financial pressure on the Bader Family, I would like to propose a project –

Push-Ups for Stephanie

Here’s the deal.  I am asking all of my readers, followers, and supporters to donate any amount of money, starting at just $1, to help out Stephanie and her family.  For each $1 donated, I will do 1 push-up.  Therefore, if we raise $1000, I will do 1000 push-ups.  If we raise $10,000, I will do 10,000 push-ups (no matter how long it takes!!)

A video of the push-ups will be available to certify that each and every one has been accounted for.  If you are local, in the South Jersey area, I invite you to come and take a share of push-ups and join me!

In order to count for the push-up challenge, all donations must be received by October 31, 2013.

Additionally, as a thank you for your donation, I will give each person any one of my Warrior Fitness Programs for free.  Simply email me HERE, let me know which program you want, and I’ll email it out to you.

Please note that 100% of the donations will go directly to the Bader Family.  I ask that you please be generous.

Any amount  is greatly appreciated.  Thank you sincerely from myself, and on behalf of Steph and the Bader Family.



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Stephanie’s older sister, Kate Bader, has set up a Facebook Page, Team Steph and a Twitter feed, #PrayforPep.  Please like and follow both to join Steph on her journey to wellness.

Ask Yourself Better Questions

Do you ever talk to yourself?  Of course you do.  I don’t mean the talking out loud like the crazy lady down the street talking to yourself, I mean the normal everyday conversation that goes on inside your head.

Ever notice that most of your thinking is done in the form of asking yourself a question?  It’s true.  Take a moment and listen to your self-talk.  It usually takes the form of asking and answering questions.  We’ll say something to ourselves like, “why can’t I ever get that movement right?”  And since your brain doesn’t want you to lie to yourself it will come up with what seems to be an appropriate answer to the question – “because you’re a screw up.”

But what did we just do?  We’ve created a self-fulfilling prophecy.  Remember, you are what you think.  If you think you’re going to always mess up that movement because you’re a screw up, guess what?  You will.

How about the person who tries to go on a diet but no matter what he does he’s never able to lose weight.  What question and answer process is going on in his head?  Maybe something like – “why the heck can’t I ever lose weight?”  And, his brain comes back with – “because you eat too much, fatty!”  So what happens?  He continues to eat too much and fulfills what he’s told himself over and over again.

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We need to start asking ourselves better questions.  The answers are out there.  We can lose weight.  We can exercise consistently.  We can train our martial art every day.  We can be masterful.  We can tap into our own innate greatness.  We can meet the woman/man of our dreams.  It’s not impossible.  It’s not even all that difficult.  We just have to ask ourselves better questions so that our brain gives us more helpful, actionable answers.  We have to understand how to use the human mind to get what we want, not what we don’t want.

Here’s the problem…

How often during the day do you focus and think about the things you don’t want?  You don’t want to be miserable.  You don’t want to be broke.  You don’t want to be depressed.  You don’t want to be fat.  You don’t want to be unmotivated.  You don’t want to be uncreative.  You don’t want… (Fill in the blank.)  But if all we do all day is think about the things, circumstances, ideas, that we DON’T want, and we know that what we focus on grows, for we are what we think, than what is the one thing we can do to change our outcomes?  (c’mon people, don’t make me do all the heavy lifting on this one, say it with me…)

Change our thinking by changing the questions we ask ourselves.  Got it?  Do it.  Ask yourself better, more productive questions so that you get better, more useful answers.  Change your life by changing your process of thinking.

Life Advice from Musashi

If you are not already familiar, Miyamoto Musashi (宮本 武蔵, c. 1584 – June 13, 1645) is arguably one of Japan’s most famous swordsmen.  He is the author of Go Rin No Sho, or The Book of 5 Rings, one of the most widely read yet probably least understood guides to strategy ever written.

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The Book of 5 Rings is divided into (as you might expect) 5 chapters.

Within the first chapter, The Ground Book (or “earth” depending on which translation you read), is one of my all time favorite Musashi quotes in which he outlines his broad principles of strategy, he gives 9 principles for those who wish to study his way:

1.Do not think dishonestly.
2.The Way is in training.
3.Become acquainted with every art.
4.Know the Ways of professions.
5.Distinguish between gain and loss in worldly matters.
6.Develop intuitive judgement and understanding for everything.
7.Perceive those things which cannot be seen.
8.Pay attention even to trifles.
9.Do nothing which is of no use.

He then goes on to say how important it is to set these broad principles in your heart in order to begin learning the way of strategy.

While I agree with Musashi that each one of these principles is important and deserves greater exploration, in this post I want to hone in on my favorite one, number 9, “Do nothing which is of no use.”

Do Nothing Which is of No Use

Wow.  Read that again.  What an unbelievable qualifier on how to live your life.  Imagine if you could actually take this principle to heart and follow it every day for the rest of your life.  How much would you accomplish?  To what great heights would you soar?  Think about this deeply…

If you really followed Musashi’s advice to do nothing which is of no use, what would change?

How would your job change is you eliminated all the superfluous crap that you do on a daily basis?  The busy work that seems urgent, but is not very important.  The mundane tasks that you somehow inherited that really contribute nothing to your overall productivity, but you still have to deal with day after day.  What would transform in your job or your business if you simply eliminated them because they are of no use?

How would your relationships with other people change?  Would you continue to make time for people who are a complete drain on your life and your energy?  Would you choose your relationships differently be they business relationships, friend relationships, or intimate relationships?  How much closer and stronger would your real relationships grow if you could push aside and remove the ones that were of no use?

How would your training change if you did nothing which is of no use?  Where would you focus your time?  What unbelievable results could you obtain if you only spent time on the training, the exercises, the movements that contributed the most to your overall development as an individual martial artist or athlete or complete human being?  How fast would you progress towards and achieve your goals if you eliminated the things which were of no use?

How would your entire life change?  Think about it.  Put it into practice.  Live it.  Do Nothing Which is of No Use.

 

Going Further into Musashi’s Teachings….

Miyamoto Musashi penned several other lesser-known manuscripts prior to his much more widely known Go Rin No Sho, or The Book of 5 Rings.

In his Thirty-Five Instructions on Strategy, written 2 years prior in 1641, he discusses The Body of a Rock.

The Body of a Rock

“The body of a rock is the state of an unmoving mind, powerful and large. Something inexhaustible that comes from the universal principle exists in the body. It is through this that the power of the mind resides in every living being.”

How does one obtain the body of a rock where the mind permeates every aspect of the body?

Learn exactly how to implement Musashi’s “Body of a Rock” strategy in both your strength training and martial art practice to build superhuman strength and incredible all around martial power inside Lesson 4 of the Warrior’s Inner Circle – you can grab that here.

 

What Muscles Does This Work?

As humans we have a unique, sometimes almost obsessive need to catalog, categorize, and label things.  Exercise is no different.

In the midst of a tough workout session, almost invariably someone will suddenly stop and ask the pressing question – “by the way, what muscles is this working?”

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Why do our brains do this?

In my opinion, it’s part curiosity, part obsessive need to categorize, but also part delaying tactic.  Just like the little kid who suddenly has a million and one questions about anything under the sun in order to delay having to go to bed, we ask a seemingly pertinent question to delay having to do the exercise a little longer.  Because we associate some type of pain with the workout, be it the physical pain of muscle ache, or the psychological pain of having to push through our limits, we do the logical thing (to us) and stall the inevitable.  The question allows us to push that pause button in the movement and stop for a few moments while we regroup ourselves for the effort ahead.

But What Muscles Does It Work?

Within the Warrior Fitness Training System, the answer to the question of which muscles are working in a particular exercise requires a little more explanation.  In conventional fitness training the answer is usually confined to something like, “well, this exercise works your biceps, that next exercise works your chest, and this last one is working your lats.”

The exercises we do in Warrior Fitness tend to have a much broader, system-wide effect.  Our exercises are always multi-planar, multi-joint, and 3 dimensional.  So the short answer to the question of which muscles does this work is usually – All of them!

How can this be?

Instead of viewing the body as made up of individual muscles, Warrior Fitness teaches that the body is one interconnected system where the whole is much greater than the sum of its parts, so that when one thing moves everything moves.  Why do I teach it this way?  Well, because that’s how the body is actually built.  More on this later…

What this idea does is allow us to express power in a much more functional way for combat, sport, and life.  Real power is expressed in only 2 ways – from the ground up and from the center out, oftentimes as a combination of both.  Never is power expressed by an individual muscle group alone.  It’s way too weak and ineffective.

The choice is yours.  How do you want to train?  Whole body integrated power is my method of choice.

My latest program, Ninja Missions Program 1 is a fantastic example of how to train for this whole body power.  Make sure you do yourself and your training a favor and check it out!!

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Become Unreasonable

Being reasonable gets you mediocrity.  Being reasonable gets you the status quo.  Nothing great has ever been achieved by men and women who were reasonable.  Every major (and most minor) human achievement has been accomplished by unreasonable people.

It was unreasonable of Thomas Edison to fail over 10,000 times before creating the incandescent electric light bulb.

It was unreasonable to think that a man could walk on the moon until Neil Armstrong stepped onto its surface in July of 1969.

It was unreasonable to think the 4 minute mile could be broken until Roger Bannister broke it on May 6, 1954.

In the world of Bujinkan Martial Arts, it was unreasonable of Stephen K. Hayes to think he would be accepted as the first American to study the mysterious art of Japanese Ninjutsu, yet today he is known all over the world.

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Over and over again, unreasonable people are succeeding, accomplishing great things, and leaving their mark on the world.  So tell me again, why would you want to be reasonable?

Do you ever get the feeling you were destined for greatness?  It starts like a slight nagging feeling in your gut that there’s something missing.  That you don’t quite fit in with the status quo.  It’s a dissatisfaction with ordinary or mediocre.  It’s the fleeting thought on the fringes of your consciousness that maybe, just maybe there’s something more than this for you.

“You take the blue pill, the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe.  You take the red pill, you stay in Wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes.” – Morpheus

Unfortunately for the world, the majority of people out there will ignore that feeling.  They will make excuses why they can’t act on it.  They will be too busy, too tired, too involved in something or someone else, too lazy, too scared.  But not you.  You will act.  You will feel the fear just like all the rest of them, but your desire for greatness will allow you to overcome it.  You will have all the same excuses and rationales, maybe more, but the restlessness inside will not let you rest.

“Most men lead lives of quiet desperation and go to the grave with the song still in them” – Henry David Thoreau

To bring this from the general to the specific, how do we become unreasonable in our training?

For starters, I have never believed that any highly skilled martial arts master was special.  Never will.  You and I have the ability to be as great as any one of them.  What one man can do, another can do.  The only way to insure you never succeed is to put them up on a pedestal and tell yourself they are special.  That they are geniuses.  That they are a rare, unusual breed.  That they are set apart.  Nonsense!  You want it?  Train harder.  Train more.  Train better.  Become unreasonable in your training.

You must train yourself to be so good that they won’t be able to ignore your skill, no matter who you are and no matter what your rank – or lack of!

Learn the ancient warrior’s methods of building an unbreakable body HERE.

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You Are Already Masterful!

A long time ago, Socrates said, “Learning is remembering.”

Famously, Michelangelo “saw” David trapped within a solid block of marble.  According to him, he did not so much sculpt David, but rather liberated him from the prison of stone.

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What if you too are already a masterpiece that is simply trapped inside your own block of stone?

The stone prison surrounding your personal mastery though is not made of marble.  Rather, you are being held captive by all the unnatural patterns of movement(s) and limiting beliefs that have built up over the years of conditioning.

It is the belief systems you have created within yourself that pulls you down, away from reaching your own mastery.

It is the negative self talk that continues to chatter away in your head whenever you attempt something great that pulls you back.

It is the little voice that says – “Who are you to think you can do that?  Who are you to dare to be great?  Who are you to think you can be masterful?  You’re nobody.  You don’t deserve it.  You’re not good enough.  You’re not smart enough.  You always fail, why do you think this time will be any different?”

The question, in reality, though is this one: WHO ARE YOU NOT TO?

Remember this – you are always the only one in control of what you think.  Whether you believe you can or you believe you cannot, you are right!

Your patterns of movement, your patterns of breathing, your patterns of thought, your patterns of belief all have been conditioned over the span of your entire life to effectively create a prison of stone confining you, limiting your level of mastery.  You can break free of this limiting conditioning by gradually chipping away at the outer layers, slowly revealing the true nature of the masterpiece “David”  that is you.

The first step in setting free your personal mastery is to first realize that you are trapped.  Without this level of conscious self-awareness, the process cannot begin.

 

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
― Marianne Williamson, Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of “A Course in Miracles”

 

 

The 3 Paths of Warrior Fitness

The 3 Paths of the Warrior 

There are 3 Paths of the Warrior, along with the 4 Levels of Preparation, that form the basis of the entire training system.  While each path is unique with its own individual strategies, methods, and characteristics, they are also so deeply interconnected that the sum of the whole system of training is far greater than its individual parts.

The 3 paths are…

Path to Strength

Strength is not only about unleashing our innate physical supremacy, but comprised of mental fortitude and spiritual power as well.  The aim of this trifold path of strength is to forge the strongest version of yourself on all 3 levels of human ability.

The Path to Strength utilizes tools such as Russian kettlebells, Indian Clubs, old objects, and a considerable variety of unique bodyweight exercises to generate strength throughout the entire body in all ranges of motion.  Physical strength is not confined to merely muscle alone, but focuses on training the tendons, ligaments, and fascia as well.  This provides a much more stable and connected body.

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Path to Rejuvenation

Health is not merely the absence of disease, but the allowing of the human body to operate at full capacity all of the time.  Rejuvenation increases the resilience of the body through restoration and compensation for the work of Strength.

The Path to Rejuvination is comprised of joint mobility work to keep the body well lubricated and injury free, yoga asana to systematically increase flexibility and act as compensatory movement, breathing and vibration training to flush the system with oxygen, remove residual tension, and energize the body.

Path to Martial Skill

Martial skill is not simply the ability to regurgitate dogma and technique, but the ability to spontaneously use the conditioned budo body to its utmost level and ability in a combative engagement.

Although the considerable bulk of my martial training over the past 30 years has been in the Japanese warrior arts of Bujinkan Budo Taijutsu, I have studied, and continue to study, several other martial arts from around the world as well.  The main arts, aside from the Bujinkan, from which I draw my experience are: Russian Systema – both Ryabko Systema and Systema ROSS, Chinese Yiquan, and the Aiki of Dan Harden.

How do you get started down the Warrior’s Path?  START HERE <<===

Ninja Nutrition Manifesto

As a big thank you to my readers for all your support and feedback, I have put together a new guide to nutrition that I am giving away here!

Introducing the Ninja Nutrition Manifesto – Assassinating Poor Eating Habits One Person at a Time!

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Enjoy!

 

4 Levels of Preparation in Warrior Fitness

There are 4 levels of preparation within the Warrior Fitness Training System that are used to create a complete, comprehensive training program.

In any complete training program they flow from one level to the next and back again effectively blurring the lines between them.  This allows the trainee a more holistic approach to training and accelerates their progress and skill rather than holding them back to finish one level before moving on to the next.

The key is allowing each level to build on the next while simultaneously back-filling in gaps and increasing the solidity of the foundation.  Thus each of these levels is must not be a discrete, separate unit.  They blend and flow into one another and back again.  They continue to be inter-related and inform each other throughout the duration of each complete Warrior Fitness Training Program.

Level 1 – General Physical Preparation

Level 2 – Specific Physical Preparation

Level 3 – Technical Skill Preparation

Level 4 – Mental/Emotional Toughness 

 

4 Levels

General Physical Preparation (GPP)

The first level in ensuring you are building skill on top of a solid foundation is General Physical Preparation (GPP). The goal of GPP is enhanced work capacity. This is the ability to run faster, jump higher, and hit harder. When work capacity increases, it allows the budding warrior to adapt more easily to increases in both mental and physical demands. In other words, it increases your capacity and level of readiness to absorb higher levels of specificity.

 

Specific Physical Preparation (SPP)

Specific Physical Preparation (SPP) is the second level. While the goal of GPP is muscular adaptation, the main focus of SPP is neurological adaptation. Specific Physical Preparedness builds on GPP by increasing the development of characteristics necessary for a particular sport or activity – or, in our case, martial arts. Therefore, GPP helps to make you effective while SPP makes you efficient. The end stage goal is of course to be both effective and efficient in each and every movement.

 

Technical Skills (TS)

The Technical Skills (TS) level is where the specific techniques of the martial art, sport, or activity are trained.  This allows the trainee to work at perfecting the technical aspect of each individual discipline.  All skills must be built on a solid foundation of strength and health in order to meet the demands of the art at the highest levels.

 

Mental Toughness (MT)

Mental Toughness (MT) is final level where mental and emotional toughness are built.  Toughness is defined as “resistance to failure”.  This level is ultimately blended throughout the entire process gradually increasing the trainee’s level of challenge, difficulty, and resistance to failure.

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Where Do You Locate Your Control?

Ever feel like everything is spiraling out of control?  Like the only thing that actually responds to you the way you want it to is your TV remote, and lately even that is on the fritz?

How do you reign it all in?

The answer is simpler than you think…

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Internal of External?

Your locus of control determines everything.  Where you source your control is what governs how you live your life.  According to psychology, those people who have allow their lives to be dictated by outside forces have an external locus of control.  These people are all over the map.  They are blown by the wind, allowing whatever happens on the outside to move their thoughts, their moods, their actions.  Because these people allow themselves to be pushed around by external forces they constantly feel as if they are out of control.  And they are.

Conversely, those with an internal locus of control are much more stable and steadfast.  They understand that it is not what happens to them that determines how they respond, but how they choose to feel about it.  The only thing you control in this life, aside from the temperature on your thermostat, is your ability to choose how to respond to external situations.  What happens on the outside, happens to pretty much everyone.  We all get sick.  We all have bad days.  The sun set on all of us last night.  What differentiates these people is their ability to choose how to feel about, and respond to (if they do at all), the bad things that happen to them.  They are in control.

Immovable Spirit

In Japanese budo (martial arts), we have a very similar concept called, Fudoshin.  Fudoshin means “immovable spirit”.  Basically it says that the warrior maintains a calm in the very heart of the storm.  He is not moved by external events and situations, but is able to bring his full capabilities to bear because of this immense mental and emotional stability.  He is in control.

Does this mean that warriors are heartless, unfeeling people?  No, not at all.  Quite the opposite, actually.  They feel anger, sadness, bitterness, regret, frustration, happiness, joy, ecstasy, and yes, even depression.  But, they do not allow these emotions to rule their lives running them up and down like a roller coaster at Six Flags.  They stay the course.

It’s very easy to allow outside events and circumstances to push us around and dictate the course of our lives.  We’ve all experienced it and allowed it to happen at some point.  The key is recognizing it and moving your locus of control back to inside yourself.

Do NOT Go With the Flow

People have all sorts of excuses and rationalizations for being swayed by every outside force.  We even have a very philosophical, quasi-intelligent sounding way of putting it; we say – “go with the flow”.  You’ve heard this, right?  You’ve probably even said it to someone, I know I have.  But here are 2 very important things to remember about why you should NOT go with the flow:

1) You cannot drift to the top.  You’ll never achieve your goals and dreams by going with the flow.

2) Only dead bodies float downstream.

Remain steadfast, Warriors.  Stay the course, my friends!!