Like Paul Freakin’ Bunyan!

I was recently asked how one should train their psyche for martial arts.  It seems like a weird question… Train your psyche??  Upon further reflection though, it’s actually a very astute question.

Psyche is defined as the totality of the human mind, conscious and unconscious.  So training it must be essential.  How then do we do it?

The basic meaning of the Greek word ψυχή (psūkhē) was “life” in the sense of “breath”, formed from the verb ψύχω (psukhō, “to blow”). Derived meanings included “spirit”, “soul”, “ghost”, and ultimately “self” in the sense of “conscious personality” or “psyche”.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psyche_(psychology)

Generally when martial artists talk about training the psyche, they speak in terms of mental toughness.  How your threshold of pain equals your threshold of performance and things like that.  Here’s another way to train the psyche that is a little bit different…

Train Your Psyche

When you practice your martial art, whether in solo training or with your training partners, picture yourself as a giant, like Paul Freakin’ Bunyan, standing taller than the tallest trees.  Have a feeling that your enormous stature confers a comparable sense of self confidence, super human strength, titan like power, and a strength of will that you can accomplish anything.  Balance it out with a supreme sense of benevolence like a warrior-protector.

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Stand tall.  Breathe deeply.  Relax, yet remain full of energy and intent.  Assume a completely nonchalant facial expression like nothing in the world can perturb you.  In Japanese, this is Fudoshin – immovable heart.

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Embody the characteristics you want to possess.  This changing of your physiology, focus, and belief  is the quickest way to change your state.  Then the question becomes, how long can you maintain it?  Practice well.

Where Do You Locate Your Control?

Ever feel like everything is spiraling out of control?  Like the only thing that actually responds to you the way you want it to is your TV remote, and lately even that is on the fritz?

How do you reign it all in?

The answer is simpler than you think…

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Internal of External?

Your locus of control determines everything.  Where you source your control is what governs how you live your life.  According to psychology, those people who have allow their lives to be dictated by outside forces have an external locus of control.  These people are all over the map.  They are blown by the wind, allowing whatever happens on the outside to move their thoughts, their moods, their actions.  Because these people allow themselves to be pushed around by external forces they constantly feel as if they are out of control.  And they are.

Conversely, those with an internal locus of control are much more stable and steadfast.  They understand that it is not what happens to them that determines how they respond, but how they choose to feel about it.  The only thing you control in this life, aside from the temperature on your thermostat, is your ability to choose how to respond to external situations.  What happens on the outside, happens to pretty much everyone.  We all get sick.  We all have bad days.  The sun set on all of us last night.  What differentiates these people is their ability to choose how to feel about, and respond to (if they do at all), the bad things that happen to them.  They are in control.

Immovable Spirit

In Japanese budo (martial arts), we have a very similar concept called, Fudoshin.  Fudoshin means “immovable spirit”.  Basically it says that the warrior maintains a calm in the very heart of the storm.  He is not moved by external events and situations, but is able to bring his full capabilities to bear because of this immense mental and emotional stability.  He is in control.

Does this mean that warriors are heartless, unfeeling people?  No, not at all.  Quite the opposite, actually.  They feel anger, sadness, bitterness, regret, frustration, happiness, joy, ecstasy, and yes, even depression.  But, they do not allow these emotions to rule their lives running them up and down like a roller coaster at Six Flags.  They stay the course.

It’s very easy to allow outside events and circumstances to push us around and dictate the course of our lives.  We’ve all experienced it and allowed it to happen at some point.  The key is recognizing it and moving your locus of control back to inside yourself.

Do NOT Go With the Flow

People have all sorts of excuses and rationalizations for being swayed by every outside force.  We even have a very philosophical, quasi-intelligent sounding way of putting it; we say – “go with the flow”.  You’ve heard this, right?  You’ve probably even said it to someone, I know I have.  But here are 2 very important things to remember about why you should NOT go with the flow:

1) You cannot drift to the top.  You’ll never achieve your goals and dreams by going with the flow.

2) Only dead bodies float downstream.

Remain steadfast, Warriors.  Stay the course, my friends!!

Prepare Yourself Every Day

Ever have one of those days when nothing goes right?

The alarm clock is blaring yet you hit the snooze again for the 5th time dreading the prospect of getting up and facing the day.  When you finally drag yourself out of from under the covers and realize just how late it is, your heart jumps into overdrive as you rush through your morning routine desperately trying to get out of the house to make it in to work on time.  If you have small children to get ready for school, daycare, or other activities as well, that simply throws more chaos into the mix.

In your rush, you forgot to eat breakfast and left your steaming mug of coffee sitting on the kitchen counter while you ran out of the house.  Traffic sucks, of course, because you’re late, and when you finally get in to work there are 6 messages from your boss wondering why you missed the morning project meeting…  and your day goes downhill from there.

Some days it just seems like the universe is conspiring against you and this time it’s personal!

What do you do?

How do you respond to the myriad changes and vicissitudes life throws at you?

Do you find yourself tossed about like a small boat on a rough sea constantly overreacting and over-correcting with each wave?

Or, do you have a quiet calm reserve of energy and strength that allows you to maintain a state of fudoshin – “immovable spirit”?

Fudoshin is a state of mind that remains undisturbed and not easily upset by either internal thoughts or external factors.  It is the even keel that keeps your craft steady and on course during rough seas of life.

How do you develop fudoshin though?  How do you cultivate that quiet reserve of strength and energy?

Prepare Yourself Daily

Daily preparation is the key.  A reserve of strength must be built up gradually and nurtured daily, even when you don’t need it, especially when you don’t need it, so it’s there when you do.  Like a savings account you invest a little bit each day so that when the unexpected happens the funds are there for you to draw upon.  So let’s get to the nuts and bolts.

How do you prepare yourself daily?  Here’s what I do…

  1. Get up earlier each morning.  Yes, earlier.  Allow 30 to 45 minutes BEFORE you actually need to be up to get ready for the day.
  2. Grab a cup of coffee.  I love my coffee; there’s nothing like that first sip in the morning.  Feel free to skip this step if you don’t drink coffee. 🙂
  3. Head outside for a breath of fresh morning air (feel free to bring your coffee).  According to Chinese Medicine, early morning is the springtime of the day and thus best for planting seeds to cultivate good health.
  4. Stand tall, feet shoulder width apart, knees slightly bent, spine straight.  Raise the arms laterally up over head breathing in slowly and deeply with the movement.  As you inhale imagine the oxygen and energy carried by the breath is filling up your entire body.  Hold the full breath for a moment or two, then slowly exhale completely bringing the arms back down.  On the exhale, imagine the body is expelling tiredness.  Repeat 3 to 5 times.  Feel free to add other imagery to this exercise as well.  For example, on the inhale imagine drawing in the positive qualities of strength, health, and confidence, and on the exhale imagine the breath drawing out and expelling negative qualities of weakness, sickness, and fear.
  5. Perform a full, head to toe joint mobility routine to further wake up and enliven the body.  For a complete discussion on joint mobility work and much, much more, see my book, Warrior Fitness: Conditioning for Martial Arts.
  6. Depending on how much extra time you have, relax a few more minutes enjoying the strength and energy you have cultivated – and finish that cup of coffee before heading in to start your day!

 

 

 Life is Stressful – Prepare Yourself!